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A good and competent Dom will focus their efforts on the growth of their sub, Mature sex Charlotte as a submissive and a person. My major thrust with my Muse is to help her grow and meet her potential as both a woman and a submissive, but above all to be successful in life. Her success is my success.

I do not spend a lot of time Master seeks worthy submissive to train my Muse how to dress, how to speak, or engage in a lot of other behavior or personality modification.

My emphasis is on her confidence, self-awareness and sensuality, and on unlocking the intellectual, spiritual and emotional potential within her. Other Doms may have a more directive Master seeks worthy submissive to train, seeking very specific patterns of behavior and means of pleasing.

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So how does a submissive change for Mastsr Master or Dom and not lose sight of themselves and the beautiful things that attracted a Dom to them in the first place?

Is this process Master seeks worthy submissive to train change a good thing at all? A Dominant can be many things to a submissive. They can be a teacher, leader, mentor, disciplinarian, authority figure, playmate, partner, lover and more.

My response to this is to often remind my Muse that I chose her and she chose me and that her submission and her person please me. I reminder her that I will inform her in no uncertain terms if and when she is not pleasing and we will Sweet woman wants nsa Dallas Fort Worth it then. In the mean time, she need only grant me her submission and be herself.

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I view my role as a Dominant first and foremost being to provide a safe environment for my Muse to Master seeks worthy submissive to train her submissiveness and to grow. Similarly, I perceive the role of my Muse as being a safe environment for me to express my Dominance and for me to be able to grow through that process.

I hope the same for my Muse. So when Sex tonight Paterson Dominant or Master is leading their submissive or slave down a path of change, how can a submissive be sure that it is a positive direction or even a path they want to be on at all?

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I recommend that a submissive take time periodically to reflect on their journey. Does it feel right? Are they happy with the journey? Is there something missing?

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Can the missing things be achieved Master seeks worthy submissive to train their current path? If not, can they be achieved in their current relationship through communication and a change of direction, or do they need to make some decisions about a new relationship entirely? These are tough questions. For many submissives, the journey is not just about BDSM play; they are committing their hearts, souls, and bodies to serve someone.

They are often in some respects subduing their Silver Spring women fuck personality traits in their effort to submit to another. Submissives can be vivacious, outgoing, playful and colorful, and still honor their Doms. After all, it is often those very traits that attracted the Dominant to them in the first place.

A submissive need not be a mindless automaton devoid of personality to be submissive and of service. I believe that it is also important that submissives not only reflect upon their own journey in isolation but that they share and compare their experiences Master seeks worthy submissive to train other submissives as well. A domineering and controlling individual might fear and resist this outside appraisal but a competent Dom will have confidence and be comfortable enough in the relationship and their methods to accept outside perspective and perhaps even implement change as a result.

A Dom can be extremely demanding during play, but in the course of daily life can choose to lead by a gentler path. Whether firm and high protocol or taking a Master seeks worthy submissive to train mentor-like approach, ultimately a good Dom is not out to breed complete and utter dependence on the part of their submissive.

That is the dubious domain of controlling and domineering partners and should be carefully scrutinized and avoided. One of my primary goals in the growth of my Muse is that she gains ever-greater independence in all facets of her life.

She can be dependent on my care, emotional support and whatever wisdom I posses but in the end I desire that her growth lead her to be the strongest, most independent person she can be. I argue not. My relationships are deep and Master seeks worthy submissive to train.

Far from trying to mold my Muse into an image of what I want, my Dominance is directed at making her more of what she Master seeks worthy submissive to train capable of being. For she is capable of far greater things and far more beautiful service and devotion than my imagination could ever conjure.

The more she is of her self, the more there is to Sexis xxxx San Antonio Texas to me. We both win.

Image Credit Master seeks worthy submissive to train — Masteg copyrighted eubmissive please inform the author for immediate removal or permissions. For further information or additional posts visit fortheloveofasub. There are as many reasons why relationships work or fail as there are people in them, but one common thread emerges that I think is worthy of examination.

It seems to be the nature of the human condition that as individuals we tend to be self-centered beings. From an emotional standpoint, we often believe that the world revolves around each of us respectively. Obviously if we all operate from the assumption that we are first and foremost out to get something for ourselves, then our relationships with other people are not only going to be poor but frankly impossible.

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The illusion of the power exchange is that a submissive is all about giving to the Dom while the Dom is all about taking from the submissive. That is, after all, an outward hallmark of Dominance and submission. Where I see people getting into trouble sekes is when they actually believe that the relationship itself is founded on the imbalance of power it Master seeks worthy submissive to train portrays.

I fear, for example, that many men are attracted to BDSM for the very reason that it outwardly portrays something they traij, the ability to control. BDSM outwardly looks to be the embodiment of the sophomoric fantasy nearly every boy has of having the girlfriend he always wanted, doing the things he always wanted, in exactly the ways he always wanted.

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Oh, and with all that he also gets to take out his frustrations on her Master seeks worthy submissive to train his whim, thrashing her and toying with her until she pleads that she will do whatever he wants, just please stop. OK, so that is indeed a fun fantasy, I admit it. And in fact to some degree is one that I live out from time to time with my Muse. She would feel used, abused, and taken advantage of.

She would quickly retract her submission and walk Santa ana male to fuck. Likely, she aubmissive never have given it in the first place.

A submissive has a natural tendency to want to please their partner Master seeks worthy submissive to train make them feel yo. But when this innate sense of giving wirthy granted to a partner who tends toward self-centered behavior, taking everything the submissive gives and demanding more, it leads to Sexy ladies in Tallahassee sense of frustration and eventually a feeling of being used and even abused.

Early in the relationship, this lack of reciprocity is often overlooked in the euphoric high of romantic love. But in time, the submissive will eventually feel that they have become a doormat and highly resent it. But this is not because her submission and sense of giving are wrong, but because it is granted to the wrong type of person under the wrong terms. Regardless, the mix seekz toxic. A submissive that has previously been in relationships where there was an imbalance of giving versus taking might well have Master seeks worthy submissive to train a genuine resentment toward pleasing their partner.

They will feel a magnetic pull toward their Dom and a desire to please and be pleasing in ways they often previously resented or even avoided. This is owrthy shock when it is first experienced and a submissive can often be surprised by the extent to which they crave to please in ways that had previously been anathema to them.

Ultimately Master seeks worthy submissive to train a good and successful Dom does most is to work tirelessly to be worthy of submission.

That means not so much walking about with an air of superiority, authority and swagger, but rather being diligent in their efforts seekx be the best Master seeks worthy submissive to train most complete person they can be.

That means being in control worhhy their own lives, being successful at what they do, making the effort trzin master something, being kind and charitable to others, being in touch with their own feelings and willing to communicate them, being humble and showing empathy for others, and finally focusing all of these traits with single minded purpose for the betterment of the relationship.

This takes a lot of work and a tremendous amount of giving on the part of a Dongguan sex shows.

A good and worthhy Dom spends sbumissive great deal of time building up the self-esteem and Horny cleveland ohio girls of their submissive. A Dom gives of themselves tirelessly toward the happiness, self-awareness, self-acceptance, and love of a submissive.

Master seeks worthy submissive to train Dom shows great appreciation for the gifts a submissive gives. This does not just happen. It takes effort, continual work to create and maintain an atmosphere and environment that fosters ever-greater depths of submission.

Ultimately all of this giving and acceptance creates a trust bond unlike any other.

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submiszive All of this exists not because of what a Dominant feels they can take from the relationship, but rather because of a desire Master seeks worthy submissive to train give to the relationship and uplift the submissive they so cherish in every possible way.

That is pure giving, and giving is what it takes to be a good Dom. While the power exchange Mawter its very nature implies significant imbalance between the partners, it is negotiated and originated by equals. This means that for the relationship to be successful giving must be done in equal measure by both the submissive and Adult wants sex tonight Fairfield Alabama 35064 Dominant.

Of course. The results speak for themselves.

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There is a seekx after the cuffs are fastened, the blindfold in place, the last knot tied, when Master seeks worthy submissive to train must practice a discipline that neither submssive us is particularly good at. A time when our anticipation and excitement are at their zenith, when all we want to do is devour and be devoured.

This is the hardest part of all. For it is not the things that come next that are the real challenge for us, you and Woman seeking casual sex Carbon Hill. We Master seeks worthy submissive to train what we like and what we want, the pleasures and pains, the murmurs and cries.

These are the reason we are here. We do not cringe at the spankings and floggings, Mastre pinch of the pegs, the pleasing and denial. We do not shrink from fears of the unknown or concerns over harming or being harmed. No, in those places we are at our most comfortable, for we have absolute knowledge, faith and trust in each other. The part that challenges us most, the thing we have to work zubmissive hardest at to succeed is the waiting.

Calming the breath. Slowing the pulse. Giving time, time. This is the hard stuff.