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Some days at home he wears dresses, paints his fingernails and plays with dolls; other days, he roughhouses, rams his toys together or pretends to be Spider-Man. Even his movements ricochet between parodies of gender: Of course, had Alex been a girl who sometimes dressed or played in boyish ways, no e-mail to parents would have been necessary; no one would raise Looking for boys that like to dress up eyebrow at a girl who likes throwing a football or wearing a Spider-Man T-shirt.

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That tension between yielding to conformity or encouraging self-expression is felt by parents of any child who differs from the norm. But parents of so-called pink boys feel another layer of anxiety: The fact that there is fpr substantial disagreement among prominent psychological professionals about whether to squelch unconventional behavior or support it makes those decisions even more wrenching.

But when their sons upend conventional norms, even they feel disoriented. And why forr it bother me that he wants to wear a dress? She felt tortured by statistics that indicated gay and transgender teenagers, either of which she figured Alex might become, were much more likely to take drugs and commit suicide. She began having panic attacks.

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What this foretells about their future is hard to know. By age 10, most pink boys drop much of their unconventional appearance and activities, either because they outgrow the desire or subsume it. The rest grow up to either become heterosexual men or become women by taking hormones and maybe having surgery. Gender-nonconforming behavior of girls, however, is thaat studied, in part because departures from traditional femininity are so pervasive and accepted.

The studies that do exist indicate that tomboys are somewhat more likely than gender-typical girls to become bisexual, lesbian or male-identified, but most become heterosexual women.

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Alex was clearly in that small percentage of boys who trample gender barriers. At age 3, he insisted on wearing gowns even after preschool dress-up time ended.

He pretended to have long hair and drew pictures of girls with elaborate gowns and flowing tresses. By age 4, he sometimes sobbed when he saw himself in the mirror wearing pants, saying he felt ugly. Worried, his mother scoured the Internet for information.

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Only a few years ago, such encouragement would have been hard to find, but the gay rights movement has made a big difference. Though acceptance is not yet widespread, many school districts and local governments now ban discrimination based on gender identity or expression.

Kenneth Zucker to lead the inquiry. Zucker is the head of a well-known gender-identity clinic in Toronto and the most prominent Looking for boys that like to dress up of traditional interventions for gender nonconformity. He urges parents to steer their children toward gender-typical toys, clothes and playmates and advises them to prohibit behaviors associated with the other sex.

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So she and her husband signed up their gentle boy for karate and soccer and took him to psychoanalysis four times a week for years. He became sullen and angry. At 21, he told his parents he was gay. In time, she and her husband viewed their efforts as unwitting abuse.

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After a long phone conversation with Tuerk, Susan bought her son a few dresses. Susan and Rob wondered if Alex would eventually become transgender. They knew more doctors were giving puberty-blocking hormones to pubescent children considering a transition to the other sex.

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The hormones not only buy time but also spare the young teenagers the angst of developing secondary sex characteristics that feel terribly wrong to them. Even Zucker supports hormones for teenagers who want to become the opposite sex, because mounting evidence indicates it best eliminates their misery. He became obsessed with a Looking for boys that like to dress up lavender dress and fell apart whenever it was in the wash.

Their fuller reason was more complicated. For another, they had noticed how, depending on his mood and his clothing, Alex comported himself in very different gendered ways. Or any different than tomboys who are averse to those same clothes?

No one knows why most children ease into their assigned gender roles so effortlessly and others do not. Hormone levels might play a role.

One hint is provided by a rare genetic condition known as congenital adrenal hyperplasia, or C. The condition produces high levels of androgens, including testosterone, early in gestation, and can create somewhat male-like genitalia in genetic females.

Girls with C. Though most turn out to be heterosexual, women with C. Genetics might also be a factor in gender expression. Researchers have compared the gendered behavior of identical twins who share percent of their genes with that of fraternal twins who share roughly half.

The largest study was a Dutch survey of twins, 14, at age 7 and 8, at age The study concluded that genes account for 70 percent of thqt behavior in both sexes.

Exactly what is inherited, however, remains unclear: In the 19th century, both boys and girls often wore dresses and long hair until they were 7. At times pink was considered a strong, and therefore masculine, color, while blue was considered delicate.

Telling the Boys From the Girls in America. In response to these threatening social shifts, clothes changed to differentiate boys from their mothers and from girls in general.

So had much of the color spectrum. Women, Beautiful older ladies wants sex personals Brookings, took to wearing pants, working outside Looking for boys that like to dress up home and playing a wider array of sports. A study in the academic journal Sex Roles suggests just how ordinary it has become for girls to exist in the middle space: These days, flouting gender conventions extends even to baby naming: The shift, however, almost never goes the other way.

By comparison, most girls referred to gender clinics are far more extreme in their atypicality: In the U. Do you fit? Or are you unhinged? They offered one room for parents to talk and another for the children to play. Today more than 20 families are in the group.

A few of the kids now take hormone blockers.

A few others have come out as gay. Most of his friends are girls, and he dresses just like them: Moriko makes him wear a tank top underneath.

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When his teachers asked which pronoun they should use when referring to him, he said masculine. View all New York Times newsletters.

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Gender nonconformity is a touchy subject, and parents who celebrate it in their children can be judged harshly. When J. But I will freely admit to you that the first time Jazz selected a dress off the store shelf, I did not know what to do.

There were beads of sweat on boya forehead. Ellen R. Nick sometimes spends hours a day drawing gowns for his 36 Barbies and designing them for himself or his dolls, using fabric, ribbon and rubber bands.

For a while, Nick was able to keep his interest hidden. But one day in second grade, a friend stopped by unexpectedly and saw Barbies sprawled in the living room.

The boy ran out of the house.